A big girl isn’t the one who wears a big make up to school everyday… or the one, who carries the biggest fancy bag on campus. She also isn’t the one who chats with every lecturer or the one who looks down on other girls. A big girl is that girl with attitude, charisma; that girl who can go through any crisis without loosing her sanity. In times of conflict, a big girl doesn’t resort to violence. She doesn’t explode in anger, neither does she ignore the bone of contention. She doesn’t pout, whine or fuse about unrelated issues. Knowing fully well the use of one’s tongue wisely proves maturity, a big girl uses hers very carefully as she always remembers in every situation that “reckless words pierce like a sword”.
Unlike little girls, big girls think through to their natural conclusion. They see more than one side to any situation and always think about how their actions will affect others. They do not take things personally as they understand that life is never all about them. Big girls are good, fair and reasonable negotiators. Like “little girls”, they may like fairy tales but they like true stories too and are well aware of the differences. They may tire, but won’t allow their fatigue to control their general attitude and demeanor. A big girl is that girl who overlooks transgressions and doesn’t think automatically that she understands the intentions of the opposite sex (whatever they may be); unlike the little girls who think “alone” is “lonely”, the big girls know that no relationship is better than a bad relationship.
A big girl lives honestly as a true friend; she says what she means and means what she says. She knows what is best for her and is disciplined enough to go after it. She hears what other people say but she doesn’t always take their words into her mind and dwell on them, because she knows that her feelings is up to her and no-one else.
I know so many big girls… Trust me when I say the list is endless. The question is are you a big girl? Do u keep big girl companies?? Is your sister a big girl? Or even you girlfriend? There is so much fun and freedom of living to be discovered as a big girl, why not try being one.
To all the big girls I know, thanks for being a part of me. What would I have done without you peeps.
I still remain @bilkisses Much love and ‘kisses always.
Ref: Jan Silvious- Big girls don’t whine.
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Ds is a must read for every so called ‘GIRL’ ….A whole lot of girls do not fit into ds category of so called ‘Big Girl’ trust me..If every girl could read ds ι̥τ̲̅ will defintly change and do a lot of good in thr every day life….Thumbs up..
Big girls r those that write stories frm the deepest part of their hearts, stories that lift people’s spirit and makes them happy, stories that don’t discriminate and that r true reflection of God’s beautiful creatures! Big girls r those wt the purest of hearts, cutest of smiles n largest of personallities.
And yeA̲̅h! I’m blessed wt the biggest of them all! *winks*
Nice composition! Must read for all! Bt wait, in addition, You aint a big girl if u forget the primary purpose of your existence on earth: which is to worship your Lord….. Let’s not forget that pls!
She is the ideal girl, the girl who doesn’t exist, the perfect woman who is infalliable, who however, everyone should strive to become…lovely piece this is…
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Errrmmm…I love this!*lost for words* (Y). Peeps need to read this tho…
Girls are such good treasure i’m so grateful to have arround..D’fact a gurl a’int a reflection of what a guy wants her to be doesn’t mean she a’int big…….to all d’pretty girls out there,i think you’re all big in your unique way..nd @blikisses kip doing big thnz nd kip staying big..love you nd big,bigger,biggest thnz coming ur way!!!!!wld luv tew read 4rm u again…xoxoxoxo
Hmmmmm…nice one
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1st let me give a shout out to all the big gurls out der who always believe in themselves n to a very special big gurl, am sure yall already know who; the hottest blogger in town: Bilkisses……. *applause all the way* who was inspired to put this piece togeda n of cos not forgetting another special big gurl…..*clearing throat*…. Me of cos *applause*….thank you,t hank you. Be Inspired…….